OK, that did the trick, although I don't fully understand why. After activating ntp, rebooting, restarting systemd-networkd the conenction via QR code did work. Now this is persistent - I shudtown/restarted multiple times, and the rae comes up fine, connects to the WLAN etc.
What I did ultimately need to do to make this happen:
- disable hostapd
- enable ntp
- reboot
- restart systemd-networkd
- run QR-code setup from RH
So I can now start experimenting - but I still have no clue, why this worked in the end. Getting rid of the certificate issue via setting the correct time I dig, but why this addressed the "rae does not connect to WLAN issue"???
Video streams work, remote control work, so for the moment I am happy 😀 No more experiments today, can only get worse 😉 Thanks @jakaskerl , I hope at least the basics are now sorted out. I'd still be curious what exactly happend…!